Held by Him

A free class for devotional women to become Held - protected & provided for by the masculine, men and in life.

Learn how to be a rare woman who is open, receptive and naturally inspires good men to rise up, support and lead you.

Restore your true feminine design, become a match for healthy masculinity and end striving, mothering, earning, fawning and performing for love

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IMAGINE...


Trusting and allowing your man to step up and step in, to lead you and your family - creating a feeling of deep spaciousness in your body knowing you don’t have to 'do it all, decide, lead and be the rock’. 


 ♡ Know yourself as beloved, chosen and held no matter what season you're walking nor what your martial status is. 


 ♡ being a rare, receive feminine woman - feeling open, supple yet rooted in your body, with a breath that is deep and wide.


Being the match and inspiring men to into their true provider & protector (so much more than just the money aspect) - a man who provides safety, leadership, love and sound wisdom.



 ♡ Feeling resourced, calm and joyful so that you can pour your love into your children, home and union, instead of feeling burdened and stressed out like you are spinning plates. 


 ♡ No longer striving or gripping your way to feel safe with money, but trusting the flow of money and yourself to be PROVIDED for, like the waves of the ocean that flow onto shore again and again that continue to return


 ♡ Working, creating and being of service from knowing you are already held and chosen - no longer being driven to ‘prove’ your worth, allowing yourself to trust the season, take pause and set up your life, business and family in a way that nourishes you, not you being a slave to it or being constantly on







Your feminine birthright is to be Held by Him. 

 Your spiritual and biological design as a woman is to be supported, provided for and protected (this what it truly means to be the “weaker sex” - it’s never been about worth, capability or being “less than”)


So many of us believe we should be able “do it all alone” or “ have all you need within”, yet it doesn't result in the love we long for - and takes us out of our feminine design.
 

On one hand, modern culture encourages us to strong women who become capable, smart and make bold leaders yet don’t know how to relax and accept help, they are strung out - and accidentally repel good masculine men and/or reject the help available to them.  

 On the other hand, we have a distorted soft girl feminine movement (and a religious spirit culture) which puts an emphasis on service and self sacrifice, creating women with deep hearts women who pour their love out, but leave their own well dry and are looked over or being used by men who want to extract their feminine essence.   


When we live like this, we cannot receive the support, love and protection we crave.

Our true feminine is hidden and we become 'invisible' to the kind of men and masculine support we want.

 Becoming a rare, receptive and held woman means letting go of the striving, earning, contorting and performing for love, and instead resting in your feminine design.

A woman must shed these masks and restore her feminine birthright so she can finally receive the protection and provision God wants to lavish upon her.

Here's the truth - you must become the 'match' for protection and provision.

Being Held is your birthright

Join this class to learn how to live as a woman who is radiant, magnetic, naturally feminine and who received the good in men and life.

Held by Him is a free class for devotional women who long to be held, protected and provided for by men, the masculine & God.

INSTANT ACCESS

This class is for you if relate to one or more of these


♡ You are the strong woman who is ready to soften and be nurtured 

 
♡ You want to be cared for, not the care giver

♡ You feel there is growth available in your relationship - you crave more of him - his leadership, depth, presence and protection

♡ You are single and want to match with a healthy masculine man

♡ You tend to attract avoidant men, selfish men or men who are passive 

 ♡ You find yourself over thinking every move with men, worried about how to be feminine


 ♡ You have felt like you need to be perfect or earn love by doing more for him

 ♡ You want to restore or enhance polarity

 ♡ Health issues, anger, anxiety, burn out or overwhelm is regular and your body is crying for a new way

 ♡ You are ready to claim" I am chosen, Cherished and Loved" resting in the wings of God

 ♡ You have been let down by men or your father and ready to write a new beautiful love story.

 ♡ You have trust issues with men or trouble letting go of control


This class is designed for women of all seasons and stages - single, partnered, married, single mothers, divorced women.

If you feel it, it's for you.

This class is free for a limited time and a replay will be available by signing up.

Learn the exact framework to become a women who is Held by Him.

Protected and provided for is your natural state.


Time to alllow your soften, as if you are being held in the arms of a big strong man who says "I've got you".

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I hear you asking - "How do I become the Held woman" 


I hear you ask It is not via the “strategies” we have been been adopting as modern women 

 It is not found in over giving, over functioning or certainly not in mothering our men 

 It is not found in fawning, done so often with an innocent heart in an attempt to be the devotional woman 

 It is not found in being the ‘perfect feminine woman' - following the advice the polarity “experts’ - who miss nuance and depth I

It’s not by forgoing your fire, passion and opinion - to be the “submissive good wife’ 

 It’s not be working harder, proving how ‘worthy’ you are of his love It is not by well meaning, but suffocating coddling, over nurturing or trying to “show” our men (please stop sending him relationships books and masculinity accounts!!)

Inside this class you'll learn the true blueprint to being Held By Him

“The number one thing I appreciate about Jessica as a facilitator is her embodiment of mature, centered, initiated Feminine. There is a presence of wisdom that comes from integration and coherence, which are rare and precious."

 She holds the space with calmness and clarity, and teaches from having lived through the lessons firsthand. I love how anchored she is in her values, and how refreshing her perspective on womanhood and romance is.  Jessica has a great capacity for nuance, and was able to grasp the true nature of my situation right away. She illuminated many new layers for me, especially around communicating with the Masculine in an empowering way, dropping into my womanhood even during challenging life chapters, and fortifying my faith in provision.


Violetta - Feminine Leadership and Business Coach


I'm Jessica

Femininity, faith & Relationships Coach

I don't have an easy story with men or love.

In my 20's I was smart, sexy and successful, yet wasn't receiving the love my heart knew was truly possible. I was doing all the things the world has told me to do, yet been let down, confused by men and heartbroken more than once.

In dating and relationships, I would bounce between men who were soft, couldn't lead me - now I know we have inverted polarity and I was in my masculine as a protective shell. These men felt like a kind of safety (because I felt safe being in control), but I ended up not respecting them and we lost chemistry. 

I would then flip to the other side, dating men who were very masculine, we had great chemistry, but we would argue a-lot and it felt like a competition - and these men wouldn't step up and truly claim me.


With men I was attracted to or respected, I become the good girl, contorting and bending to please them, feeling like I had to earn love. I know now this came from not feeling inherently worthy, claimed and loved as I am. 


I used sexuality as a hook for me, this made me feel powerful and I received attention and a "kind of love" - but it wasn't the true intimacy my feminine heart yearned for. 

I was confused and couldn't understand why women who did less than me received more. 

Over a decade ago, I started a quest to find a better way - I knew better love and relationships were possible. I have devoted thousands of hours, dollars and energy into healing and re-writing my story with me, understanding men, to restore my feminine and become a woman who knows how to evoke the best in men, whether it be a peer, my coparent or romantically. 


I have now supporting hundreds of women to do the same through 1:1 coaching, group courses and programs. Relationships and love stories have been transformed, hearts healed, women claimed and families repaired. 

I support devotional feminine women who want to partner and marry healthy masculine men who will support, cherish and protect them, who are ready to be free of past pain, 'daddy issues' and end trauma and live in love and have harmonious happy families.


Now I am in union with a Godly man headed towards marriage this year. 

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FAQ

  • Do I have to be a particular faith to join?
    No, if you are called to this, you are meant to be here.

    All women are welcome however please be known that I teach from a biblical framework rooted in the truth of God and His word.
  • What about if I cannot join live?
    There is a replay - we got you girl! Keep an eye out for how long you have access for once it drops
  • Why is the class free?
    I want you to receive this - I have been the striving, earning, performing women starving for protection and provision. Truly is is every woman's birthright to be Held. This is my ministry, mission and life devotion. This is what God has placed me to teach

    I will also be inviting you to continue working with me deeper in a paid capacity if that is something you are called to do.
  • Is there a replay
    Yes, a limited time replay - you still need to sign up to receive this